COVID-19 is a global pandemic that affects us all, so it may be true to say, “We’re all in this together.”
What’s also true is that we each possess unique personalities and particular circumstances which directly impact how we will weather this storm. Individual experiences through this common crisis can be unique.
And even as cities and states begin to reopen, emerging from quarantine life to our “new normal” will be different for each of us.
A friend of mine shared this “Perspective” about our current Coronavirus/Quearantine situation on Facebook. You may have seen it, but in case you haven’t, I want to share it you.
WE ARE NOT IN THE SAME BOAT …
I heard that we are all in the same boat, but it’s not like that. We are in the same storm, but not in the same boat. Your ship could be shipwrecked and mine might not be. Or vice versa.
For some, quarantine is optimal. A moment of reflection, of re-connection, easy in flip flops, with a cocktail or coffee. For others, this is a desperate financial & family crisis.
For some that live alone they’re facing endless loneliness. While for others it is peace, rest & time with their mother, father, sons & daughters.
With the $600 weekly increase in unemployment some are bringing in more money to their households than they were working. Others are working more hours for less money due to pay cuts or loss in sales.
Some families of 4 just received $3400 from the stimulus while other families of 4 saw $0.
Some were concerned about getting a certain candy for Easter while others were concerned if there would be enough bread, milk and eggs for the weekend.
Some want to go back to work because they don’t qualify for unemployment and are running out of money. Others want to kill those who break the quarantine.
Some are home spending 2-3 hours/day helping their child with online schooling while others are spending 2-3 hours/day to educate their children on top of a 10-12 hour workday.
Some have experienced the near death of the virus, some have already lost someone from it and some are not sure if their loved ones are going to make it. Others don’t believe this is a big deal.
Some have faith in God and expect miracles during this 2020. Others say the worst is yet to come.
So, friends, we are not in the same boat. We are going through a time when our perceptions and needs are completely different.
Each of us will emerge, in our own way, from this storm. It is very important to see beyond what is seen at first glance. Not just looking, actually seeing.
We are all on different ships during this storm experiencing a very different journey.
Realize that and be kind.
Unknown author(Copied from a Facebook post which appeared on my feed from a post published on April 29.)
Different people, different experiences
This perscpective sheds light on the fact that though COVID has affected each of us, our individual experiences may be completely different.
This pandemic has changed every day life for most of us, but it doesn’t change everything. Life goes on.
People still get sick from things other than COVID-19.
Babies are born every day.
Kids continue to grow and must continue to learn even though they can’t go to school.
Family dynamics and struggles go on, sometimes more intensely.
Communicating well with loved ones is still a challenge.
Creators still create.
The very old and very sick still need patient caregivers.
People with anxiety may have more to be anxious about.
And a ton of other scenarios, both wonderful and heartbreaking, happen every day.
We’re still connected in ways we hardly think about. And we need people in our lives.
And my struggle and how I handle it may be very different from your struggle and how you handle yours.
So the least we can do for eachother as we each weather this storm is to be kind and be patient.
If you’d like to donate time and/or money, here are a few links with opportunities and ideas on how you can help:
Want more ideas about how you can help? Do a web search “how to help covid-19” and specify your city.
If you’d like more insight about doing what you can even when it doesn’t feel like much, read What you do matters on the blog.