Starting a project is hard. Finishing is hard. But it’s the in-between stuff that can kick your butt. That’s what I’m going through right now as I’m writing the sequel to my first novel, A Song for Jessica.
But the struggle to get to “The End” isn’t unique to writing.
Think of a remodeling project.
I love those home improvement commercials that start by showing the outdated, dull room, then the guy/woman/couple decide it’s time for a change.
Next scene, they’re at the store picking out their new products for the remodel. The guy/woman/couple smile, the sales clerk smiles (they actually find someone to help them!).
Next scene, the remodel happens. They tape a door frame and stir the paint. Simple and clean.
And then the very next scene, the work’s all done! The guy/woman/couple straighten a picture they’ve just hung on the wall as a finishing touch.
Now they stand back and admire their work. It’s beautiful and perfect.
If only it were that easy.
What they don’t show is the back and forth “disussion” about design, colors, materials, and cost. “Discussion” about the best way to do it, the unexpected kinks in the plan, then what to have for dinner because there’s dust and/or paint everywhere, and that goes on for days or weeks and maybe the project is never totally finished.
The struggle is real.
Getting to “The End” of a project can be exhausting and frustrating, but it’s do-able.
It helps to:
- Be patient. Expect your project to take time and effort. You have to want it bad enough to believe the time and effort will be worth it in the end. (Remember the remodeling scenario.)
- Pace yourself. If it’s a long road to the finish, slow and steady is more likely to get you there, especially if it feels like the work is an unpleasant grind. I was working on revisions to a first draft I finished months before and every time I worked on it I wanted to give it up, just abandon the project. But one page at a time, that’s the only way to do it. Slow progress is still progress, right?
- Be open to getting help if you can. It’s hard to trust another person with a project that’s your baby, but the right person can make a big difference in the end result. Another set of eyes, an extra hand can be the boost you need.
- Set up an accountability partner who can give you a gentle push to the end. It’s like having someone cheering you on to the finish line.
- Set a schedule–break down what needs to be done and pace it out to an end date. For me, it’s a way to help visualize the end of the project. But be flexible. Remember, stuff happens and some days you’ll be more productive than others.
If you’re struggling to get the “The End” of a project, you’re not alone. It’s not easy.
But don’t let that stop you from getting started, whatever it is you want to do.
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